- Conversate is a nonstandard verb that means “to have a conversation.”
- The standard verb (and the one you should use if you want to be correct) is converse.
One of the words you can get from the noun conversation is conversationalist: someone who is good at making conversation. You can also get conversational, which means informal. There’s also the verb conversate, a candidate for the “not-a-real-word” title, even though you can find it in a dictionary.
The Definition of Conversate
Conversate means to have a conversation. To get to conversate, you’d have to take the noun “conversation,” remove the suffix -ion, add an “e” at the end, and use it as a verb. That process is called back-formation, and the result is often a word that’s considered nonstandard—at least for a while. Conversate is still nonstandard, which means you should probably avoid it in situations when proper writing matters.
Because it’s nonstandard, conversate is sometimes treated in the same way people treat the word “irregradless”—as if it weren’t a real word. But just as we’ve explained for “irregardless,” the fact that it’s nonstandard doesn’t mean it’s not a real word. And it also doesn’t mean it won’t become a standard word one day.
Conversate vs. Converse
Conversate wasn’t born out of a lack of a better word. The standard verb for having a conversation is converse:
However, you can still find examples of people using the nonstandard verb conversate instead:
You can’t stop people from using the verb conversate—it’s a real word, albeit a nonstandard one. You can, however, choose to use converse instead. That way, in situations where what you say or write really matters, you won’t have a slip up.
from Grammarly Blog